Having just wrote four hundred words on cellphone and WordPress lost it all, I am simply going to sum up… My best mate and beauty girl has to go. Used needles, so upsetting behavior. Awake twenty hours, splitting headache, roosters crowing and I want sleep. Am not heartbroken, am truly shattered and just needing to get this yarn out. No matter how embarrassed I will be later, fuck you all. The cellphone screen is a blurry haze and my pathetic attempts at oblivion came to nothing, as they always have.
25 years of trying to destroy yourself, you think you’d have it sussed by now…
My young friend is awesome. Her future could be so great. She cares, she took me to family court, she is beautiful inside and out.
But she is complicated and dealing with addiction and mental health issues. She is also capable of some ruthless violence. I love her, admittedly.
Have tried, truly. We have had such a brilliant two days, and then seriously almost killed eachother. We faced up in public area. I admit that sometimes I see exactly what I am going to do, and it was not pretty. She had already managed to not cut me up or rearrange my skull, I could see that. But half an hour went by and she was still so shitty she was holding back from attacking me. She pissed me off so much I saw myself doing some stuff that I needed not to do. She has never seen me angry and not giving a fuck. It may surprise her. We were so close to seriously hurting eachother. I had already decided which bit of concrete her head would break on, but outwardly I was calm. I talked and joked with staff at the premises, I stole her cellphone from her lap as she went to drive off without my tools and bags. She refrained from whatever grizzly and horrid things she had planned. Even though we sat within hitting distance (oops, that was me. She kept moving away, although she was main aggressor, odd she was so keen to be violent yet stayed away..)
And, then an hour and she was still not talking and driving and stopping at gas station for hour without saying anything.
Another half hour of this driving down the motorway and I opened the door to get out. She stopped me by grabbing me, I think. No way was I allowed out.
Why would someone who wants me gone, stop me from leaving ?
Why is this crazily beautifully hearted young lady so willing to dismember me. Why aren’t I scared in the least of her? What hell will ensue if we both are bad at same times?
fuck. it is BaD enough without broken bones and blood. We would both give a decent job at that.
Fuck this. It will be jail. She cares, but everything is about her. Sometimes the world is not all about you. Hate to burst your lovely little 20year old haze of bubble.
She is lovely.
Yet I need her out my life right now.
Condemning myself to knowing no one in the area and financial and vehicle stress is not a nice thing.
She’s my best mate
And my most dangerous addiction.
I have to make her Not My Problem.
Am sorry and sad. After such a brilliant 40 hours, her Mum came out when we drove up to make sure we didn’t fight. I love this little scrawny LEGS girl.
I tried. I moved from Wellington for less drama and for a good friend. Looks like failed on both.
For I went and stuck a needle in my arm. I was crying and confused by my young friend. I was angry. I had been to family court and they treat me like shit. She was there, looking stunning in her jeans that are more see through lace than jeans.
Fucked if I know why she is my friend.
Or was my friend. For I did not her in that capacity for a while. Now it’s really fucked. Wish she would let me, or others, help. I care and we can compliment eachother. We can
Almost killing your lovely LEGS best mate and most trusted secret keeper is not the path I want to be on.
90Percent of her is great. 10Percent leads me to smoking, needles and jail.
Can’t risk it any more. I loved some of the times together, and care for her and her problems more than she will allow me to help with.
She opens up to me like no one else, she claims.
But this old ugly man is closing the doors and locking them.
She has to be let go. But I am the one taking the fall. Sad. But house is rented to me. She has heaps of friends and family here. She should be fine.
Sent my only friend a message saying we can only spend five minutes a time with eachother and asked why she decided to care and look after and be my most trusted friend.
Got no reply.
Really sad, and not like me but
NOT MY PROBLEM
I gotta stay out of jail, rescue some financial crisis and stay off drugs
I understand her past. She has good reason to be the way she is.
But can only grab what is in front of you by dropping whats in your hands…
Love you Legsies, good luck. Wish my friend will come back someday.
Aroha Nui girl…..
Time for this old worn out acne prone cripple to find some new friends.
But, no doubt, they will all be screwballs too